Heard shocking news of breakups (it's the breakup season now) and people's story on their relationships sets me thinking about us. In general. And i have so many questions in my mind i wish google can help me in finding the right answer.
Couples can breakup even when they were together for 8 years. 2 years is alot to me and i always feel that it'll be damn wasted if they broke up. It's like 8 years wasted on the wrong person!! How did they get the courage to do that? and how are they so sure that it's the wrong one. Or the right one actually. How sure are you that your current partner will be the one in your family picture next time? Uncertainty.
Those years that you have spent with them. Do you feel the love? or just used to each other's presence?
And what's next after the breakup? start all over again with someone else,building it up then let it tumble down again? Won't we get sick of it? When is it gonna end?
Also, do you keep looking for the one that is closest to your standard/perfect man or settle for someone that is good enough?
There is no point planning about the future now. Life is unpredictable and it probably wouldn't go as how you've planned it.
2 comments:
I think you are just too afraid to let go,just getting use of your life now. If you continue to waste your time building on someone you don't think is the right one for you in the future,the harder it will be for you to leave.Relationship is like trying for the clothes that you want,until you find one that really match your style,you feel comfortable with and you can afford it.So don't be afraid of starting all over again because you know that the next one will be better.
i'm afraid of losing the guy who love me the most while searching for someone who does lesser.
what if i made a mistake and regretted it?
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